The secret to getting back on your feet after a plot twist in life is to find the ONE THING that motivates you more than anything else in life to rebuild. Ask yourself "why"... A month after my ex-husband suddenly left our family for another woman I was barely functioning. My "Sunshines" were 4, 20 months, and 8 weeks old at the time. I'd just gone back to doing my morning radio show from maternity leave and was still nursing. I was a mess. This is how I put myself back together and you can too.